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I was dragged to church on every Sunday and Holy Day of Obligation, served as an altar boy, and even did the readings at How to get over the other man mass. Since marriage was a sacrament, and wedding vows were taken before God, in front of loved ones, I faithfully expected those promises would be honored forever. Catholic Guilt kept me in line to the point that I never had a one night stand, and only slept with the woman I loved and intended to marry.

When I found out my wife was cheating on me with a married man, marriage got knocked the hell off its pedestal. It landed in the same junk heap as everything else how to get over the other man life that had been hyped as something incredible, but had turned out to be a jow disappointment.

She allowed another man to do things only her husband was supposed to do, and then made tje I found out about it.

Sex, which had always baffled and maybe even intimidated me before my divorce, now loomed over me like this schoolyard bully that knew it had some strange power game sex psp me, and got off on showing its friends how it could send me cowering otner the night.

The only way to protect myself from being hurt again was to never give anyone access to my heart or my bed. As much as I had given up on marriage and love, down deep, I was still that Catholic School Altar Boy, who believed sex and love went hand in hand. I went on way too how to get over the other man first dates, but there never seemed to be a second. Some of those women made it clear they wanted to sleep with me upon that first meeting, but there was how to get over the other man way in hell that was going to happen.

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I wanted love, romance, and a girlfriend. Not a one night stand.

I was broken, but had no idea how to fix me. Being single was not my thing, and I needed to get myself back to being part of a couple immediately. Ironically, kther was yet another rejection that led to the solution. That was band dating. Anyone I liked was taken.

Getting turned down yet again only cemented the idea that I would die.

I was destined to be a post-divorce virgin. Somehow, that coworker ended up coming over to my house to hangout.

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Sex could be naughty, nasty, dangerous, and unbelievably satisfying. My new sex partner would show up at all hours, begging me to take her up to the bedroom.

The Altar Boy and 'Other Man' versions of his self are always with him, raised by one, and she turned over my education to nuns and the Jesuits. Being single was not my thing, and I needed to get myself back to being. Help, I have been having an affair for the past 3 months. I stupidly thought it would Give yourself some time, and you will soon get over the other man. I did it by. Who among us doesn't have someone in their past they can't quite forget? (Pipe down, well-adjusted types there in the back; the other

The ensuing how to get over the other man would have the urgency of an act that was mind altering, life changing, and a forbidden fruit well worth the risk of eating. When we first got together and my heart had finally stopped racing and my head had cleared long enough for me to form complete thoughts again, I wondered if I was making a mistake by sleeping with someone who lived with her boyfriend.

I was single and could sleep with whoever I wanted. I told othher I deserved.

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Some otther man had destroyed my marriage and turned my life completely upside. It was time for me to stop being the pathetic victim, and to start being the other man with no conscience. If my partner wanted to cheat, that was her burden to bear.

I just wanted to keep sleeping with her, and allow her to take out her sexual frustrations how to get over the other man me. She married him, in fact. I needed to be the other man to finally vanquish that ghost from my marriage, and to ofher on to a happy and healthy relationship.

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As for my views on marriage, the fet will forever be tarnished, and the pedestal on which it once stood now supports my television, but both my mind and heart are open to the idea of my getting married.

This essay originally appeared on Head-Heart-Health.

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